Today I’ve been thinking about brokenness in life and finding glimpses of light in dark spaces. Cheery, no?
Life is heavy. Life is hard. Sometimes it all, plus the unrelenting pull away from God can all be too much.
I have a child with aspergers, high-functioning autism. It’s never easy but sometimes it is just so hard.
Another child has eczema an it is a daily struggle to keep it under control.
I have my own health issues- which means I am on a very restricted diet or I feel awful.
I tend to get sad and withdrawn because of the weight of it all. So often we bear our burdens alone. No one can totally understand what we go through. Or we get platitudes or the dreaded unsolicited advice.
Plus the pressure we feel to act like everything is ‘ok’ when it isn’t. Suffering is just part of life. I wish we could just let things be what they are without trying to put a positive spin on it.
But if we are real we risk being judged or having our pain minimized. Like Job. We are uncomfortable with suffering so we try to come up with a quick fix, an answer, a reason…when sometimes things are just broken. Sometimes prayers just go unanswered.
If we can’t be real in our brokenness and honest is our faith even real? Jesus was the ‘man of sorrows’. He understands even when no one else does.
“Truly I tell you, at the renewal of all things, when the Son of Man sits on his glorious throne…” Matthew 19:28
I’ve been thinking about that a lot- that there is going to be a great renewal of all things.
Every burden lifted. Every tear gently wiped away. Every last broken thing gloriously made right.
In the mean time I pray that my own pain and brokenness makes me a more compassionate, merciful, caring person.
No one has it all together. We all have private hurts, pain, and burdens. We all need mercy. I think pain can be like the surgeon’s knife- cutting out the pride and arrogance and leaving something a little messier and tender and Christ-like in it’s place.
“Lord, all you asked us to do was to believe and follow you. Help us to do that in spite, or even because of, our circumstances. Help us to love. Help us to be beacons of grace in a harsh world. Help us to be strong until you come to set all things right and make all things new.”